TSYv2 Foreword by Dr. David Ley, Ph.D.
Tonight, She’s Yours: Cuckold Fantasies II
is here!
“This collection of 18 steamy stories brings LOTS of heart-pounding erotic action. Featuring 1800’s India, paranormal characters, MMA fighters, BDSM experts, made-to-order robots, cuckolding first-timers, well-practiced cucks, humiliation play—men, women, straight, bi, and gay cucks are all found within these pages. Get ready for the ultimate in cuckold fantasy fulfillment.”
Includes stories by: Rose Caraway, Janie James, Dylan McEwan, Moxie Marcus, J.T. Seate, M.P. Clifton, Jaap Boekestein, Richard Bacula, Prescott Anderson, Annabeth Leong, Corey Reid, Betina Cipher, Theophilia St. Claire, Dorothy Freed, Winter Blair, Minister Trouble, and Dr. Colin Adler.
With special FOREWORD by: Dr. David Ley, Ph.D. (author of Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray And The Men Who Love Them)
*If you missed any of our previous TSYv2 #SexySnippets, click here:
THE BIRTHDAY PRESENT by Janie James
THE BULLFIGHTER by Richard Bacula
SHIVA’S NECKLACE by J.T. Seate
MILK AND HONEY by Dr. Colin Adler
FOREWORD
by
Dr. David Ley, Ph.D.
Why would a man want to watch his wife with another man? The answers are not simple. I confess, the first time I encountered couples who engaged in the practice of cuckolding, I assumed there must be something wrong with the men, the wives, or the marriages. Like most therapists, I had little training in the diversity of sexuality or the impact of sexual shame. Exploring the answers to this question, and confronting my assumptions, changed my career.
In 2008, I conducted research about alternative and non-monogamous relationships. I met two couples where the wives had sex with other men with their husband’s enthusiastic support and encouragement. Initially, I thought this was crazy and, ultimately, unhealthy. But both couples had been married for decades and had successful marriages, careers, and families. These folks had some of the most sophisticated communication skills I’ve ever seen. As a therapist, I was forced to confront biases around monogamy and female sexuality that had unconsciously intruded into my clinical practice. As a writer, I began one of the most fascinating adventures of my career.
Prior to my book Insatiable Wives, nothing had been written in academic literature about the practice of cuckolding or hot-wife relationships. After meeting these couples, and realizing how little we know about why men and women would be interested in sharing the wife with other men, I spent the next year and a half interviewing couples around the world, trying to understand where this apparently rare, underground, secret, and socially shamed desire came from.
Ultimately, I found—like with all things sexual—cuckold fantasies and behavior are intrinsically connected to many different, complicated things in people’s lives, sexuality, and relationships. Every fantasy, kink, sexual desire, and cuckold relationship is unique and driven by the individual characteristics of the people involved. I also learned these desires and fantasies are far from rare. Recent research from sexual scientist Dr. Justin Lehmiller found that 58% of men have had a fantasy of watching their wife or girlfriend with another man.
Along with sex-columnist superstar Dan Savage, Dr. Lehmiller and I recently investigated the previously undescribed practice of cuckolding in the gay male community. There, we found many elements that are similar to the practice of heterosexual cuckolding.
Different kinds of people and different kinds of relationships explore different aspects of this fantasy and desire. People in more secure relationships are more willing and interested in watching their partner have sex with somebody they know, whereas people who feel less secure in their marriage are more anxious about sharing their partner with somebody who might be a threat to their primary relationship. But in these relationships, whether gay or straight, research found that cuckolding turns out to be a predominantly healthy, positive, and exciting aspect of the couple’s sexual relationship.
A foundation of the cuckold fantasy is that these men find it deeply arousing and exciting to imagine and witness their partners being sexually fulfilled in ways they alone cannot provide. Sometimes, this experience includes elements of submission. Sometimes, there are aspects of voyeurism or bisexuality. But always, the cuckold’s core desire is rooted in wanting their partner to push their own limits of pleasure and ecstasy while the cuckold waits, or watches, with bated breath.
While usually initially reluctant, many women describe tremendous personal and sexual growth and fulfillment, when they dip their toes into the heated waters of their husband’s cuckold fantasy. Wives often fear that their partners’ desire to be cuckolded means something is wrong in their marriage, or in their husband, and are usually delighted to discover that neither of these is true.
Often, the couple experiences a powerful jumpstart to their sexuality as the husband reclaims his wife, confronted with the erotic evidence of her adventures. The outside sexual excitement translates to gigawatts of electricity coursing within the couple’s intimacy.
For many people, these desires remain just a fantasy. And these fantasies bring tremendous excitement, thrills, and pleasure to a relationship.
We are learning many wonderful, startling things about sexuality as the sexual shame that has kept these things a secret for so long is obliterated by the power of the internet.
You might be reading these stories, collected by the wonderful Rose Caraway, because you hope to make these desires a reality. You might share the stories with your partner, hoping they can fulfill this deep, dark interest of yours and not think you’re sick for having them. Or you might just enjoy the fantasy, knowing you won’t explore it in real life. The wonderful thing about sexuality and fantasy is that they are yours and yours alone. So, take hold of them, embrace them, and make them yours as you thrill at the thought of sharing your exciting, sexy partner with others. Enjoy that you have found what excites you and touches your sexual buttons. That is what they’re there for.
David Ley Ph.D.
Clinical psychologist & sex therapist.
Amazon Author: Ethical Porn for Dicks; The Myth of Sex Addiction; Insatiable Wives.
Black belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.
Albuquerque, NM